🧸 Resources for Older Siblings


Helping Big Kids Feel Seen, Loved, and Involved



Welcoming a new baby is a big change for everyone—especially older siblings! These resources are designed to help children understand what’s happening, feel secure, and get excited about their new role.



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Books for Siblings (Toddler to Elementary Age)
I’m a Big Brother / I’m a Big Sister by Joanna Cole

The New Baby by Mercer Mayer

Hello in There! by Jo Witek

Waiting for Baby by Rachel Fuller (Board book, great for toddlers)

Big Brothers Are the Best / Big Sisters Are the Best by Fran Manushkin

What Baby Needs by William and Martha Sears (includes breastfeeding families)



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Kid-Friendly Videos & Shows
Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood – “The Baby is Here!” episode

Sesame Street – New Baby episodes & activities on their website

StoryBots: How Babies Are Made (age-appropriate version on Netflix)



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Activities to Involve Siblings
Let them help pack the diaper bag or pick out baby clothes

Create a “Big Sibling Kit” with small toys, coloring books, and snacks

Read books together about becoming a big sibling

Practice holding a baby doll and “helping” with diaper changes

Include them in belly bonding time (talking, singing, rubbing lotion on your belly)



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Tips for Parents
Talk honestly and gently about changes ahead

Set aside one-on-one time with each older child post-birth

Let them express their feelings, even if they’re unsure or upset

Reinforce how important and loved they are—before and after baby arrives

Give them their own “job” like being the Baby’s Toy Manager or Official Hug Giver



📦 Bonus Idea: Big Sibling Gift


Have a small gift “from the baby” ready for the older sibling when baby arrives. It helps them feel included and celebrated!